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A rant regarding a video I recently uploaded onto my youtube: “feminists don’t  really  want equality” & 6 other myths about feminism I keep getting personal messages sent to me on youtube from MRA's calling me scum and trying to tear me down but all it does is prove that their opinions are not worth my worry. i am always open to critical debate and i can defend my views but only when it is appropriate (ie. has SOME basis for its truth other than a feminist-hating forum on reddit). Feminism really is for everyone - it is FAR from a perfect movement but its ideology is morally sound.  MRAs are upset with the lack of male resources - that's a result of patriarchy, not feminism. MRAs tell me what i'm REALLY for is "humanism." i'm confused, mistaken. feminism isn't what i think it is. But no, i am for the feminism that i identify with.  I call myself a feminist and not a "humanist" because humanist erases the specific aim of f...

This lovely sweater, based on Jeremy Scott's pretty (but expensive) line of Simpsons print goodies, is from etsy user RabbitCave   :) It's my new favorite sweater!! \ Pants are Topshop, lipstick is Ruby Woo & Nightmoth from MAC

I'd like to first point out that these are just my opinions, and that they are coming from a place of solidarity and not of experience. I am not trying to speak for sex-workers - I am only trying to start a conversation! I think it's necessary to actively think about these things in order to make any real shift in consciousness. Sex Work is Real Work We are constantly bombarded with the message that sex workers are troubled. Watching day-time television I have witnessed Dr. Phil repeatedly demonize sex work and those who participate in it. It’s dirty, and dangerous; they must have suffered as a child or lacked a fatherly figure. The two-dimensional stereotype attached to sex-work is ignorant and perpetuates a culture of violence against innocent people who are just doing their job (which there is and likely always will be a market for, I might add). There may be risks that come with a line of work which often requires secrecy and vulnerability (to some extent), but ...

I'm in Toronto for the week, staying at my 2 lovely uncles' house with Tyler and my friends and here is some documentation of the fun!!!!  Jessica and me bein' all cute and dressy Jess and Lilly are my favorite sad sacks of all time